…of letting my freshly bathed toddler play in the barn right before bed because Daddy’s home and that’s where he’s at.
…of shouting when a glass of water spilled without remembering that (a) it was my fault it was there in her way and (b) it was only water.
…of letting an unnamed toddler eat popsicles for breakfast…in front of the TV.
…of blogging instead of making dinner.
…of sleeping until 9 while Hubby deals with Early Girl.
…of leaving the house a mess in favor of going to bed.
…of hitting snooze for an hour (even though it’s Hubby’s day off…even though it’s Sunday and I really should get up so we’re not-as-late-as-usual…even though it’s a day I need to get up early).
…of faking sleep when I hear the little thumps coming my way so I get the sweet not-so-soft “GOOD MORNING!” and the kiss.
…of letting my two-year-old daughter kiss my belly. Anytime she wants to. Even in the middle of Mass. And liking it.
…of reading instead of doing whatever I should be doing (like making dinner).
…of emailing instead of calling family members.
…of getting a pizza for lunch when I have a perfectly good lunch in the fridge at work.
…of eating McDonald’s. A lot. While I’m pregnant and supposed to be nurturing new life.
…of sitting on the couch reading books with my daughter instead of making dinner. (Wait, is there a pattern here?)
…of letting my daughter take the equivalent of a bath as she helps me do dishes. And wishing it would last longer, this precious time while she is enthusiastic about doing what I do.
…of squandering an entire weekend on slow nothing-accomplished-except-time-together in honor of the break between classes. (And planning for the squandering of another one before the classes start back up!)
…of not even pretending to like fishing.
…of getting up in the middle of the night with the little one. And thinking of how short a time she’s been little and how fast she’s been growing.
…of yelling at the dog in a tone of voice I would never want to hear my daughter use. And then, when I hear my daughter use it on said dog, of being glad I don’t yell at her like that.
…of not resolving to be nicer to the dog. Even though I probably should.
…of waiting a week longer than I should have to take the dog to the vet’s for a rash.
…of procrastinating. A lot. On things I should just get done (like making dinner, doing housework, answering email, returning phone calls…).
I don’t usually make any comments to your blog, just like to read and keep up on what interests you the most. And of course add to my ever increasing list of must reads. But I just had to post an answer to this one.
Keep procrastinating – they are only little for a very, very, very short time. Steal all the little moments you can to make memories that will last a lifetime for her. She won’t remember that you were doing dishes, she WILL remember that you had fun and spent time together. The years add up all too quickly – 13 & 10 seem like just yesterday. The house and all its work will be there long after the giggles and waterfun and barns after baths. Its not going anywhere, but time has a way of going way too fast and little just isn’t little anymore. – Nama
Housework and making dinner are, like, so way overrated. Keep doing the fun stuff, instead.
A little birdy told me that you thought I didn’t want you commenting on my blog. Not true! Keep at it — I LOVE the comments.
I have to agree with the other two posters and admit that I’m jealous. I need to be more like you and enjoy life with my son and husband like you’re enjoying time with your husband, daughter with a new bundle of joy to join you soon.
I always learn a great deal from you and I need to learn to relax and enjoy life! Who cares if dinner is grilled cheese instead of steak & potatoes? That mess you left will be there tomorrow and you probably know as soon as you clean it up, it will come back!
We have to enjoy the simple things in life like my son giving me his “Cane’s sauce” on Sunday when we were eating at Raising Cane’s near campus because he heard me tell my hubby that I love Cane’s sauce. He said “here Mama, you have this”. I wanted to cry in the restaurant!
Keep doing what you’re not doing!!!!! I’ll work on not doing what I’m always doing; I hope you know what I mean!
Well I think you have a special dispensation – you are PREGNANT!
God bless and love,
Mom, I mean Donna
Sarah: Thanks for giving me not just a chuckle, but a real belly laugh. It hurt for just a moment, but was absolutely worth it.
Is there any chance we were twins separated at birth?
Hugs, Heidi